Friday, September 14, 2012

Life's little surprises: more goodnews

Life is full of surprises.  When I was turning 50 I told my siblings I wanted $50 from each of them.  So, they did.  I wanted to buy a good hand bag with that money.  I never did find the right one to mark the occation till 3 days ago.  I thought I would buy a coach or a Brahmin.  My friend Diane Morris have many of those bags.  I tried all of her bags on but none of them looked good on me or made me feel like "this is it."  Well, Diane is skinny and tall - da! I told my self.  Last Sunday I saw a Brahmin bag on a chair at Will's Church.  I picked it up and put it on my shoulder.  It fits me perfectly and I felt that I looked good with it.  The owner of the bag and the ladies around me said it looks like it's mine.  So, I thought to myself I will go to Macy's and see if they have it.  I did and found it.  The young lady there helped me put the strap doubled correctlly just like the bag I saw on Sunday.  Wa la... I bought it!  It turned out that I had tried this bag many times before but the straps were not right - too long for the very short me.  I did not know how to shorten them on my own.  I am so happy that I have a perfect bag - the first  'Brahmin' - a gift from my siblings.

Why I am telling this in it's gory detail?  The surprise is this, I thought I would run out and find a perfect bag in Dec. 2010, but I was wrong.  I could have spent that money from my sibblings buying just any thing.  But they are too important to me to buy something mediocre to have as a gift from them.  So I decided to save the money and wait 'til I found the right bag.  The surprise is this, after 1.9 years I found it and I knew it instantly when I did.  I am so over joyed.  I am what they called a type Aperson who is over-achieving, competative and always in a hurry to finish the task.  I am surprised by the surprise finding of this and it's timing.  The lesson I learn from this is how true  Lamentations 3:22-26 passage is.  I waited and I am enjoying the result of waiting.  Waiting, patience and calmly seeking are a part of the right way to live.  The goodnews is - I have my first Brahmin bag! it will each time I use it will remind me of the love of my siblings.

Lamentions 3:22-26
22 The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
   his mercies never come to an end;
23 they are new every morning;
   great is your faithfulness.
24 ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul,
   ‘therefore I will hope in him.’ 

25 The Lord is good to those who wait for him,
   to the soul that seeks him.
26 It is good that one should wait quietly
   for the salvation of the Lord

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